Veteran Nollywood actress Omotola Jalade-Ekeinde recently shared her insights on dealing with family disapproval in romantic relationships, emphasizing the importance of understanding and patience, but also recognizing when it may be time to walk away. Speaking during an interview on The Morayo Show, which aired on YouTube this Wednesday, Omotola opened up about the complexities of partner dynamics when faced with hostile family members.
While offering a balanced perspective, Omotola urged couples in such situations to first try to build bridges with resistant family members. She encouraged partners to take the time and effort to prove themselves, acknowledging that some family members may harbor deep-seated biases or misconceptions.
“Not all opposition is rooted in reality, sometimes it’s just preconceived biases, maybe because of your background, or where you’re from,” Omotola explained. “But it’s important to try everything you can to connect with them. Give it time, be patient, and show them who you are.”
However, Omotola also cautioned that not all families will be swayed by genuine efforts, particularly those whose prejudices are entrenched. In cases where acceptance seems impossible, she advised couples to think carefully about whether the relationship is worth pursuing, given the potential ongoing conflict.
“There are some families who simply refuse to accept you. They have made up their minds based on factors like where you come from or other personal biases, and no amount of effort will change that,” she said. “If you find yourself in such a situation, you need to be honest with yourself about whether you can continue in the relationship.”
Highlighting the challenges that marriage itself brings, Omotola warned that entering a union without the support of one’s family can create unnecessary strain. She explained that marriage requires a strong support system, and going into it without familial backing might make the journey even harder.
“Marriage is hard enough as it is. If you start off with an unsupportive family on either side, it’s going to make things much tougher. In the end, you have to ask yourself: is it worth it?” Omotola advised. “If you’re prepared for that struggle, then that’s your choice, but if the hostility is ongoing, it could make your married life a lot more difficult than it needs to be.”
The actress concluded by stressing that while love is a powerful motivator, the practical realities of a marriage especially the role of family should not be underestimated. Her message was clear: couples must weigh the long-term consequences of entering a relationship where there is deep-rooted disapproval from key family members.
“Ultimately, love is important, but don’t ignore the reality that family support plays a crucial role. If that support isn’t there from the start, you’re entering a battle that might not be worth fighting.”